Just wondering should i look for mr right or let him find me?

I have been through some rough ones and I said that is it. For the first time in my life i am actually thinking about my wedding day. And Ive always said i would never get married. So i never thought about. After I left my X of 5 yrs, i cant stop thinking that i do eventually want to get married. Im tired of a$$hole men!! Where have all the good ones gone?|||right here baby ; P. no but in the serious matter i'd say do a bit of both kinda wait but kinda look aswell. and the good ones arn't regulars at bars,clubs ect.|||You have to look for Mr. Right because he's thinking just like you... "Most women are @$$ holes and aren't worth the time of day." He's not in any hurry because because he knows who he is and what he wants but feels like you don't exist.|||Decent people are find to find. I would personally recommend a fairly passive approach with an open mind.|||Tom has the right idea, you need to keep your eyes out for him, but you don't need to go actively looking for him. He will most likely be doing the same thing, keeping his eyes out for you. Think about the places you are spending time though and if they are the sort of places you would want your Mr Right to be at? If not, then you're probably not going to find him there, since he isn't there.