Looking for Mr. Right? I'm so tired of looking, but I'm impatient waiting?

Oh, we're out here.



When you're in the mine shaft you need to dig through a lot of worthless rock to find the treasures. If you don't dig, then you just get the shaft.



The digging is exhausting, but the treasures are well worth the digging.Looking for Mr. Right? I'm so tired of looking, but I'm impatient waiting?
1. Loneliness is due to lack of intimacy...dispel lonliness by interacting with family, friends, and colleagues/peers. Begin to attend a group meeting of some sort that you find interest in. Begin to widen your social circle by becoming involved in something out of your comfort zone that is safe.



2. Waiting? When we wait, we learn to accept ourselves. We learn that what we see on TV and the movies about romance and love is not true life and reality. Reality and true life are what you are living and doing every day. Waiting gives us time to prepare for the best. Use the time wisely or you will be disappointed in yourself for not taking action in your own development until it was too late.



3. NEED a man? No. WANT a man? Yes. There is a difference. What you want a man for, as described above, is to help you feel loved and feel accepted. You can do that for yourself, my friend. No man, woman, or child can bring to us exactly what we need to like ourselves and progress in development. It is the "I" in you who makes that choice, no man can bring it for you and it is unfair for you to count on someone for your self-worth.



4. "Can't" is a word that is properly interpreted as "won't." It's as if you are threatening yourself that something drastic is going to happen. Why does it have to be drastic and dramatic? How about making it a 40% priority (getting a man) rather than a 100% priority? Putting too much emphasis on ANYTHING is not good for our emotional and mental health. Ease up on yourself and try to avoid making self-threats that are empty and pointless.



5. You are a wonderful human being with much to offer the society around you. Let your beauty shine and glow rather than grasping onto fear and gloominess. These emotions reflect outward in your demeanor and demonstrate your value, or lack of, to self and others. Become valuable to yourself, others, and the right man will pick up on your vibes.



6. In sum, if you "look" for him, he will remain elusive. If you "look" for your own personal development and begin to enjoy life for what it really is NOW, rather than what you want in the FUTURE, you will easily meet someone while on your journey to self-acceptance and self-love. When this happens, we will have a much more meaningful relationship than is possible right now.



7. Feeling sorry for oneself is negative, and it is a good idea to distract yourself with something to keep you busy until you get past the sad moment. You can do anything you put your mind to, girl. Remember that. Your mind is a very powerful thing. Use it to your advantage rather than let it rule your emotions. You are in control. You are the person behind the brain...the personality, the being. Make life positive for yourself. No one can do it for you. Not even a man that you imagine as being out there. Humans are extremely adaptable, and the sooner we realize that flexibility, or "going with the flow," is to our advantage, we will become satisfied with many things rather than wait for one big thing that we put 100% time and energy into.



8. There are many books you might read to help you through this, as well. Read about notable women who achieved with their own determination and will, and encourage yourself to look at the "being single" situation from a different, healthier perspective. It is better to read something of worth than to sit and think until you make yourself sad and feel lonely. Distraction can be a true friend right now. Check it out.

Looking for Mr. Right? I'm so tired of looking, but I'm impatient waiting?
If he is out there you'll find him, good luck.